Multiple things can be true at once: We can respect what Valentine’s Day means to many… while also questioning how capitalism has co-opted love and shaped today’s culture of dating and partnership into something performative, exclusionary, and transactional. On a day that often pressures people to prove their worth through consumption, coupledom, and conformity to cis/heteronormative scripts, we hold space for those who feel excluded. So if you spent today alone, working, hea